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| Subject: | wanting to end my engagement...but how ? | ||
| Author: | Sam | ||
| Date: | Thursday, February 22, 2001, 7:47:05 PM P | ||
| I've
been with my g/f now fiance for 4 years and it's worn me out. I have had
to pay for everything since she has been a full time grad student. Also,
it feels more like a father/older brother to daughter/younger sister to
me she - she's always asking for advice and I'm always in the drivers
seat. She has a roommate who has been telling her what to do for our
dates - surprise me by cooking dinner - somethings she's done only once
in 4 years ! The roomate seems to be more what I'm used to or at least
closer to what I 've always wanted in a woman - I never thought I would
fall out of love... Physically, I've realized I can't be with this woman for the rest of my life - hear me out. She's very small breasted and waisted - fine. She has hips and a fairly big butt which is fine also but...her legs and ankles are VERY thick - something that always turned me off on a woman. Before you say anything think about how many women will only marry or date taller guys? Or guys with other physical characteristics you must have? Same thing - I silently CRINGE when I see her in short skirts or a bathing suit - and she's only 30 ! After having kids it will be much worse - I can't do it ! I normally don't ever dream but the other night I dreamt I was in bed naked with a beautiful woman with long shapely legs and a very round,firm feminine butt and she was laying on top of me - I woke up and couldn't believe the detail I remembered! Let alone the subject matter ! Help - I need to end it somehow - it's gonna hurt like hell because we do click so well...I may even do it over the phone but I'm afraid I won't get the diamond back...thanks. |
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| Subject: | RE: wanting to end my engagement...but h... | ||
| Author: | Vi | ||
| Date: | Thursday, February 22, 2001, 8:03:27 PM PT | ||
| 1.
If she gave you FOUR years of her life, she at least deserves this face
to face. 2. You need to grow up a little. You are over 30 and acting like you are 15. 3. She BETTER keep the diamond, she deserves it!!!!! |
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| Subject: | Ya big ole chicken! Just tell her! Why... | ||
| Author: | honesty counts | ||
| Date: | Thursday, February 22, 2001, 7:59:53 PM PT | ||
| ask her to marry you in the first place?? You should not have asked her if you never had any intention of marrying her. If ya son't get the ring back, it's your tough luck! Beauty is only skin deep and I bet yo're pretty thin skinned! | |||
| Subject: | unbelievable !! | ||
| Author: | mary | ||
| Date: | Thursday, February 22, 2001, 8:11:55 PM PT | ||
| you've
been with her for 4 years and you are just now realizing she's not your
type? do HER a favor and break off the engagement. yes, you will probably hurt her, but then she can find someone else that SHE clicks with that appreciates her for who she is. alot of men are attracted to small chested/waisted women that have a large behind. i hope you someday find your perfect woman, but somehow i have the feeling you will never be satisfied. |
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| Subject: | read this, as hole | ||
| Author: | liz | ||
| Date: | Thursday, February 22, 2001, 8:52:13 PM PT | ||
| It has been found in court that if the man breaks it off the girl gets to keep the ring, if she does it must be returned. I hope she takes you to court over it, because she would win. I hope it was a very expensive ring. Also, I hope someday your body goes to hell and your girl decides you aren't attractive enough for her. | |||